{"id":17,"date":"2008-09-09T00:06:59","date_gmt":"2008-09-09T04:06:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.daviddowling.com\/blogdd\/?p=15"},"modified":"2008-09-09T00:06:59","modified_gmt":"2008-09-09T04:06:59","slug":"flowers-on-my-grave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/2008\/09\/09\/flowers-on-my-grave\/","title":{"rendered":"Flowers on my grave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you want someone putting flowers on your grave after you die? \u00a0When I think about what I&#8217;d want, I honestly don&#8217;t place a lot of importance on whether or not anyone puts flowers on my grave.  I&#8217;d rather be in their hearts and minds, and that their memories find me in the vibrancy and happiness of life.  If someone sings a song of mine, or thinks about something I said in life and is encouraged by it, or if my children apply to a decision some wisdom I was able to impart, I&#8217;d be much happier than I would knowing they had visited my headstone.  This is remembrance to me.<\/p>\n<p>As a believer in Christ, I share communion at His command. He tells His followers to remember His body, broken for us; and his blood, shed in payment for the sins of the world.  He also instructs us to hear His words, and to follow them.  We&#8217;re never directed to visit a physical representation of His life though, such as his tomb, or the site of His death.  I think He wants most for us to remember the greatest love ever displayed in His sacrifice; and His words, which along with those of the Father, are the greatest ever spoken.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you want someone putting flowers on your grave after you die? \u00a0When I think about what I&#8217;d want, I honestly don&#8217;t place a lot of importance on whether or not anyone puts flowers on my grave. I&#8217;d rather be in their hearts and minds, and that their memories find me in the vibrancy and &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/2008\/09\/09\/flowers-on-my-grave\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Flowers on my grave&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[24,38,50,67,88],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daviddowling.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}